Men At Play 是一家亚洲的先生爱情片厂牌,任何款式转发请联系作者

好基友跟自己说,那种强调同志群体的文章,不秀秀美好的人体是为难引起关怀的。

S05E01

可以吗,我只想秀得精细一点,脱离烂俗,并且也在直男直女的承受范围内

Homie is not change no matter how big change happen in future. So he
left the guy. They are not in the world now.

Men At Play 是一家北美洲的男士爱情片厂牌,从前总部在London,现在是西班牙(Spain)。

The baby father met each other in the supermarket.

这么些厂牌在世上的老同志圈有极度高的盛名度,甚至在女性中也有忠实观众。

Hey. Lip.

视频宣传图的风格

I have a new lease on life.

Men At Play有名的缘故是她很好地聚焦在一个一定要求的商海。

What 17-year-old gay kid isn’t horny?

影片的栋梁之材都是身着精致高雅西装的要命Hot 而且相当MAN的男模。

Franks’s milk of the gods.

这么些男模外形高挑,阳光,成熟,硬朗,潇洒,就和电视机剧里在办公走来走去的时髦商务人员一样。

You body is perfect.

S05E02

摄像场景不仅仅发生在办公,还有卧室,浴室,厨房,游泳池,club,警察局甚至绑架和审讯现场等等。

They want to move people in who can pay taxes. So they push us out. And
eventually, we end up in a camp somewhere at the cage of civilization. A
tent city built on old landfills and toxic waste sites. And then they
start passing out the smallpox blanket.

那一个拥有自然气质并且身姿矫健的男子在一定情景中的摩擦,恰到好处的满意了同志和一部分女性心中,对高颜值商务型男,华贵纯净的羽绒服下
若隐若现胴体的奇妙遐想

You okay? Are you lost? Hahaha!

To be honest, I always thought you were just handjob whore. It’s ok. I
thought you are a illiterate bartender pimp.

借使您喜爱阳光成熟并且潇洒优雅,打着领带穿着小巧崇高的西装,具有商务奢华气质的男人,那么那个厂牌不会让你失望。

Why don’t you don’t wanna go to the swim pool. Someone shit on it? No.
Someone shit on you?

那么些男模日常在20-30多岁,在少数方面有所一定的相似性。

How to let the boy want you. And when they do, what do you actually do?

在那几个厂牌的官网上,你可以查看那个列表,给她们打分,成为她们的粉丝,也足以领会他们的生活背景。

They disrespect the college student. But he still alive even tired like
a dog. He never shows anything different in here. He is great.

脚下以此厂牌有149个表演过的男模。

Lip. Wet beats hot.

她俩毫无都是同志,也有一对是直男或者双性恋

That was me asking you on a date. Because I figure you kinda can’t ask
me out. You know,because I work for you.

有局地日益剥离,有局部新的血流参加

It means a lot. For my husband.

眼光好的朋友应该发现了地点的一些图片有诸多音讯,图片下方有片名之类的,感兴趣可以自行百度

Laura. I’m–I’m Frank. I’m the liver.

在Cybersocket得到二零一七年最佳南美洲Best European Site,Best Niche Site和Best
Sex Scene3项奖

It’s a constant temptation. I feel it in my stomach and my skin.

(Cybersocket是米国无不侧目标成人杂志,评选一级爱情片厂牌和表演者)

Let me see you face now. What face? You have no Mather? So I could do
for you what my mother did for me.

今年恰好是以此厂牌的15周年邢台

What the hell are you doing? Put your tongue back in my mouth. What is
this shit?! Five minutes ago, you were a baby. She looks good,right? I
am not answering that. But, this means yes.

在15年前的2002年的London,一对已婚的老同志为在下车平面公司之外赚点零花钱,用一个口袋数码视频机为西装爱好者拍摄视频,那便是Men
At Play这一个厂牌的前身。

Why is there a condom on it?

在她们开端做这几个厂牌时,没有其余别的网站平台像她们那么狂热于穿西服的孩子他爸,除了部分Yahoo群组。

I have to go to the Alibi Bar. Why? It’s a job requirement.

说到底因为流量与会员的无休止的便捷提升,为了网站的不以为奇运作,他们不得不屏弃平面集团的职位而全职制作电影。

Did I overstep? Did I freak you out?

一个会执导、拍摄,制作出第超级的影片,另一个有精明的小买卖头脑与机智的认识,让那么些工作室在这么些破例的游玩行业中脱颖而出。

Look, I know that there’s a thing like you are not supposed to date
newcomers or whatever, but I’m not really a newcomer because I’m not
really a drug addict, so you won’t be damaging me by dating me. No. I
would be damaged me. See, you go to the these meetings because the judge
ordered you too. And it’s fun. You can learn a little thing. But for me,
these meetings saved my life. Literally, every day.

各路影星送上祝福,也席卷近期正当红的Theo 福特

Realtors starters buying up property at better than market value, and
within a few months the whole neighborhood was over run with the gentry,
Bx as were forced out. Today, the urban gentry, is monied lesbians. They
knock on your door. They offer you twice what you home is worth, and
they do it because they know something you don’t.

她拍了快100部男士爱情电影,而且是被搜寻最多的前30位成人影片影星之一

You can’t laugh in a year. When you won’t be able to afford to live
here. They moved in, they took over. They kicked the homeless out of the
park as if they don’t have a god given right to sleep there. We are
dinosaurs. And a big, fat comet is headed for our sweet slice of earth.
And the comet is a Starbucks.

眼下在Men At Play也是常出现的顶梁柱之一

Hey. 14 will give you 20.

上边选取淡蓝网上部分Pettie专访Theo
Ford的一对内容,以便大家知晓,精晓和八卦男士爱情电影明星的干活和生活

So as a stepmother, I think I have the responsibility to tell that the
reason people don’t like you, and that your father don’t want to be
round you. Is because you are very very needy. I just think you should
know that. And then you can work out. You are needy and annoying. And
slutty bad mother.

(P=Pettie,T=Theo)

You want to dress like that. And hang in bars, you should learn to run
faster. That was insane. I can’t believe you just did that.

至于工作:影星……专业……敬业……安全……

S05E03

P: Do you feel a little self-conscious when you or you and your husband
walking on the street? Do you mind fans recognize you, take pictures,
and give them your autograph?

You see, this is what I’m saying, it’s the decline of civilization as we
know it.

平常当您仍旧和娃他爸一道走在马路上,会有点害羞吗?即使有粉丝看来,要合照要签名会介意吗?

You should get some for the bar. Hell no. I don’t need someone in a cons
after only buying one bear. I’ll get bankrupt.

T: It’s funny actually as people are too shy to come up to me on the
street. They would turn around and whisper “omg, that’s him”. My husband
notices it more than me. Most of the times, it happens in the gym or
hotel just when I least expect it. For example, when I go to shoot in
Madrid, one of the waiters there is a big fan, and the first time he saw
me he was “oh my god, are you Theo Ford”. It was eight in morning. I was
not showered, or picture-ready at all.

She is a girl here. She think she’s a piss of shit.

幽默的是,一大半场所下,大家都太害羞,看到自身都不敢和本人搭话。他们会转过身说“天啊,是她”。我相公会比我更便于注意到。惊叹的是,那样的事,在饭馆和健身房会比较常发出。有四遍我去法兰克福壁画,酒店的一位服务员第一眼就认出自己,但那时候是清晨8点,我没洗澡也没收拾,更是没准备好拍照。

I died upstairs and then I came back to life. I was reborn in this
house.

Sometimes, I do have people telling me afterwards that they saw me on
the street, and ask if next time they can come up to me. I was at Heaven
last night, and in the queue to get in there was a boy from China, he
turned around, and looked at me, and asked if I was Theo Ford. I said
Yes, and he said he was a big fan. I was with my husband and he wanted
to take a picture, it was sweet. I just do porn. It’s not like I’m a
Hollywood actor. I do have fans, but I am not bothered by people on the
street recognizing me. It’s always pleasant.

S05E04

有时,大家会在后头对自身说,下次再相见行如故不行拍摄什么的。我前晚在Heaven排队时,有个中国男孩认出自己。当时自己和爱人在联名。他想合影,我本来乐意地应承了。我觉着温馨只是拍摄成人电影,是有些粉丝,但也没有到好莱坞明星那种程度。平常被认出,要合影等等,都是很心花怒放、很善意的,不会介意。

We all have our own dreams. me too.

Usually, people are really shy, because when you do porn, you are being
perceived as this sexual beacon of empowerment, which might intimidate
some. So they will love you on Twitter, but when seeing you on street,
they will be like “omg omg omg”.

S05E05

实则过多时候大家蛮害羞的,尤其是当您做成人影片的时候,你很简单令人有羞涩的感到。所以我们会社交媒体上不害臊地粉你,但在马路上看看您,就不会这么,只会在心头嘀咕“
OMG OMG OMG”。

Shit stuff. You wanna go? Are you sick? Turning into a beautiful
mistake.

I think it’s great that the internet helps people to open themselves and
live the life they would like to. You have to be careful to get stuck
behind your computer or your phone. But this does help to build a
certain image and to market yourself, especially when your image is a
product to sell.

S05E06

相持媒体真的可以援救大家在网上展现自己,过着自己优质的生活。但您要留意,无法让网上的生存,取代真正的活着。

What did Ian do?

And my life on Twitter is pretty open. Most are personal things. I never
post sexually explicit content. It’s just me, my family will also find
it cute to look at it as I talk about my husband, my life, and what I
do.

You just can’t control yourself. Because the stuff always came back. You
named yourself shameless, but now all of you felt hated this and wanted
to threw that. You guys felt shamed at this now.

本身在推特(Twitter)上的情节是分外明白的,大多是我的私人生活,不会有太多关于性爱等等的情节。所以即使本人的亲属,也足以看,也会觉得,那就是自个儿,和自身的生活。

S05E07

Of course, there are links to my movies to promote, that’s the sexual
part. But this is the only sexual part of my Twitter, it’s my work. My
sexual life, as a person, is private. That’s actually the only thing
that can still be private in my life. So I would like to keep it that
way. Also because I am married, I want to protect it. I also want people
do realize that my life as a married man, is totally different and
separate from my life as an actor.

How does he touch you? If he punches it, it means you guys are friends.
If he squeezes it, it means he likes you.

自然,我有时候会享用自己的影视链接,这应该是自身的推特(TWTR.US)上仅局地与性相关的内容。我个人的性生存,完全是自我的心曲,那也是本人生活中仅存的可以是我个人隐衷的一些,所以自己梦想尊敬它。作为已婚的孩子他爸,我也特地愿意大家领悟,我的生活和本身的做事,是一点一滴分开的。

Frank’s shirt wrote “谢谢你”.

P: So yourself as an actor, and we have got a few other interesting
terms here, such as porn star and performer, what do you think of these
three, and which one of them do you identify more with?

We have to take responsibility to our own behavior. We can’t rely on
each other.

您谈到祥和是艺人,那相对于GV男星、表演者,你认为分裂在何地?

Ivan stolen a baby. Frank almost died. Fiona slept with jimmy again when
she was married other guy. Lip can’t go to school because no one sent
letter to him. It comes off as needy and desperate.

T: I don’t perform on stage or night clubs, so I am not a performer. In
the scenes, you know it is a movie, there are people filming, we are
acting. Some of the things I do are not me, even if we have a dialogue
or a plot. For example, for Men.com, I got to play quite a few different
characters in my scenes, which is actually exciting.

Sammi was gonna crazy. She shot her dad, Frank. Let he say he need her.

自己不在舞台、酒吧和夜店表演,所以自己不是艺人。在照相的时候,我了然会有雕塑机,会有对话,会有剧情。我在电影里作育的,不是真正的本人。帮Men.com拍摄的时候,我有空子演分化的角色,仍然蛮令人激动的。

I don’t think they control their relationship. I think they are just in
pain. It made me feel pain the same.

A lot of people say that I am not an actor, that I am just selling my
dick online. Yes of course, I am not quoting Shakespeare in my work, but
it is still acting, since I do not do things I would in my own life.

It’s easy to go back the life we used to be, but it’s not who we are
anymore! It’s not who I am anymore. I used to like the danger, the not
knowing who you were, the bad boy.

洋洋人说我不是艺人,认为自己只是在卖肉。确实,我不须求在大团结的做事里上演Shakespeare戏剧桥段,但自我要么在演出,会做一些自身自己的生活中不会做的事务。

We are right together before. But I want something else right now. Time
changes people. It’s not you anymore. You should, you have to let me let
you go.

There are porn actors, and porn stars. Nowadays, you see some people who
have made one scene call themselves porn stars. I have made nearly 100
movies, and I am one of the top 30 (27th) most searched actors. Maybe at
one point, when you have enough experience, you can legitimately call
yourself a porn star. Porn star is still a little bit overrated term for
myself.

Whatever your real name is. Take care yourself, Fiona.

成长电影明星和艺人仍然有分其余。现在众多人只拍过一部,就自称明星了。我拍了快100部,而且是被搜寻最多的前30位成人摄像影星之一,但自己以为明星对自己来说是过誉的称呼。也许等自我有了足足的阅历和小说,有一天就可以这样称呼了呢。

It’s the client cancelled the project. Jack is a good thief. Fiona. But
a shitty person. Jack…

P: So for people like Paddy Brian, do you think they can be called as
porn stars?

Sammi

那么诸如Paddy Brian等人,你觉得她们是男星吧?

S05E08

Paddy Brian

You have to make a decision.

T: Yes of course. You see the way they work is purely professional.
Paddy is one of these professionals, and he is a great guy. There are a
lot of them, and you can definitely tell the ones who are stars and
professionals, and the ones who do it because they just don’t know what
else to do. there’s a very big difference.

I feel guilty when I study here.

自然是,而且越多的是因为他俩的敬业和业内。Paddy是很棒的娃他爹,在这一行,有许多像她同样专业的,而且她们比那多少个因为不驾驭自己能做哪些而拍黄片的精良得多了。

But if I came back to home, I really came back. And I came go out of
there anymore. I supposed to stay there even though i can’t help. But I
didn’t. The only reason. I stay here, in a long run, it’s they told me
is a good way to help family.

Paddy made a huge name for himself, and his name will appear in 90% of
the times when talking about porn, especially in the UK. And in the Top
30, I am ranked a little bit below him. I always feel so honored. It’s
nice and surprising to find out the way you see yourself is never as
good as the way others see you.

I’m gonna keep going here and I’m gonna keep making these payment. I’m
gonna show up, and I’m gonna count them out. This is what I need to do.
And your part, I hope, it’s patience.

Paddy至极知名,越发是在大不列颠及北爱尔兰联合王国,只要谈到成长Gay片,90%都会涉及他。我在前30人的排名里,仅落后他几名,对此我一向深感非凡美观。其实自己看自己,和别人看自己很不一致等。旁人看您,常常可以发现你自己看不到的闪光点和优点。

Please. You know. I just need some time.

When you are in porn, you are exposed both physically and emotionally.
Compared to 20 years ago, it’s much easier to talk to porn actors these
days by social media. Now the game has changed completely, there is a
lot more guys. Social media does allow to find more talent, and great
talents, but also allows people who are not or should not be in porn.

Because you Americans like everything to be right or wrong. If someone
is like you, it’s right. If someone isn’t like you, it is wrong. But
it’s not real. Life is not so this or that, black and write.

在本人那行,大家都是人体和情绪揭穿在外的。相对于20年前,现在可以通过社交媒体,分外简单地和成人视频影星交换。社交媒体也让无数艺人更便于被察觉、被挖掘,所以现在有更进一步四个人在演,但还要,也让那多少个不应有从事爱情动作片的人有了进入的机会。

You should be happy Kevin makes these changes. Because if no one does,
this is how babies end up in dumpsters.

P: Have you ever come across a situation where you have to work with
someone who you are not attracted to? How do you still maintain the
chemistry on the camera?

I’m not Monica. I didn’t slash my wrist over Thanksgiving dinner. I went
for a drive. You took a baby. I didn’t plan first it doesn’t mean I hurt
the baby. I took care of the baby, I sang to the baby. I love that baby.

你有没有为了工作和自己不喜欢的同行合营?当时怎么着在画面前有限帮助热度和心理?

I get why everyone’s freaking out. But I mean you pulled some stupid
pretty serious shit, not too long ago and everyone didn’t try to turn on
you and permanently medicate you. I went to jail. So did I. And now I’m
out. But I’m not Monica any more than you are.

T: Well again, because it is acting. I make sure that I can see myself
doing that scene with the person. I have said No in the past. But once
you work with a big studio, they usually cast great guys, so it is
extremely rare to come across these kind of situations.

I told you not to fuck up your life. Don’t fucking do that. You guys are
happy. And you can be happy again, but not if you go fuck someone else.
And the two of you.i mean, I can’t handle it if you can’t figure this
shit out. I mean, this is not fucking fair. But you guys you’re Kevin
and V.so figure it out.

从而自己一开头就说,那是表演。而且一旦您和比较大的铺面合营,他们平日会选很好的男生和您一同拍。你说的这种景色,是很少的。

It’s not fair? You married too, Fiona. And you were happy too. And then
you fucked Jimmy . So figure out your own shit instead of putting it all
on me.

Maybe once in a while, they will let you to work with a guy that you
don’t really like, but usually they are pretty great. It happens more
with small studios. Once I was told one hour before filming, that the
guy I was supposed to shoot with could not make it and it would be with
another guy. I saw the picture, and I was not happy. I did not say
anything but to be honest, if they had showed me before, I would have
said No. Afterwards, I was angry at them because they had put me in a
situation where I had to do something that I was not OK with.

Frank used to drunk like that. Every moment he argued with Monica. He
drunk like a shit. But it didn’t work. He always came back to her. You
can’t drink him away, Mickey. It didn’t work.

这种情状或者会在局地小店铺暴发。比如有两次,我在照相前一时辰被报告,本来要和我拍的人来不断,要换人。他们给自己看了替换者的照片,我没说哪些,但心灵是不乐意的。我没在片场说什么样,事后丰盛生气,因为他们让自家做了自我平日不会做的事务。坦白说,倘诺一早就看看照片,我是不会答应的。

So, you are a good guy. And I am a asshole. It’s absolutely. You know
I’m changing. You are a good man. And I won’t this is over. I hate what
I did. I hate that I hurt you. I want to take it back. And I want to
make it right. And I don’t even know if I really know what love is. You
know, except a thing that I fuck in all the time. I respect the shot out
of you, and I miss you. And all day today when everything in my family
is just falling apart, I just kept wishing you were with me. And that’s
what I knew.

P: Was that one of the comments you made online which was related to one
of the very unprofessional experiences?

Don’t shoot. I’m white ;

那就是你以前在网上提到的不快活、很不规范的拍照经验?

Don’t say anything. Ask for a layer.

T: Yes. However, these days, when you work with big studios, such as
Men.com. It is just amazing and they will do everything for you. They
make sure you are fed, stay in a good hotel, and have your flights and
cab. Some other studios don’t even give you a drink on set.

S05E09

是的。但今天和大商家协作是相当欢愉的业务。他们会保证您吃得好、住得好,帮您订好机票和车。有些商家竟然在拍照的时候连喝的都不提供。

We can’t guarantee you will be safe in there.

P: Do you guys also need to be tested really often to keep working in
this industry, given the fact that you have to have sex with quite a few
guys?

Make friend in there. Do things for them. So they can protect you.

时不时和见仁见智的人拍照,你们需求平日做检测吗?

Good work and no play.

T: I have shot some bareback scenes, but there are just a handful of
them. Even if you only shoot safe sex, there is always a risk. So to
make sure that I am not in a position where I can get something or
transmit anything, I get tested every month.

But asshole know how to made a deep impression on people.

本人过去拍过无套的,就几部。但不怕你选择了爱护措施,仍然会有风险。所以为了安全,我每个月都会检测两遍。

Why you take such an interest? Well, it’s my job to take an interest in
my students.

It’s for my own health, and peace of mind. It’s also important to
respect your co-workers, and my husband of course. If I catch something
on set, I can get treated, it’s fine. But it is more a matter of knowing
yourself and making sure that you are being safe. Also it is about
respect, for the person you are going to have close physical intimacy
with.

I’m not sure what you think you’ve doing. But there’s a policy against
fraternizing ditch your professor. I don’t want to fraternize. I want to
fuck you.

自家这么做,是对协调,也是对外人尊重,更不要说您将和旁人暴发亲密的负距离接触。当然,也是为着自身的郎君。倘若我被污染到哪边,可以去治病。

What did you came for? Me? Robotics. They got one of the best labs in
the Midwest here. Four years of free equipment. I’m happy to put up with
a little bit of bullshit.

P: So how long does it normally take for you to get ready for a scene. I
heard sometimes, a scene that lasts 20 minutes, needs to take hours to
film?

Algorithm. Writing code. What if one wanted to hack into financial aid?
You know.change an entry to “paid in full”. Ok. You just need a sequel
injection to get the hashed password. I can take a look for you.

那就是说普通拍摄一部差不多20分钟的影片,你要未雨绸缪多长期,拍摄多短期呢?

Not me. I’m going out with a bang, not a whimper.

365体育官网,T: Usually a scene would be around 20 to 30 minutes, and normally would
take between one hour to 15 hours to shoot. A couple of times, I have
scenes shoot for 11 or 12 hours in one day. It was horrible.

You believe in god, frank? I believe a force, that thinks it’s greater
then myself. Hey, I survived this.

一般说来来说,片长在20到30分钟左右,会费用1小时到15个小时的照相时间。有两次我一天拍了十几个时辰,槽糕透了。

What’s peaceful about dying?

P: Wow, in one day, how to you keep that up all the time?

I don’t care how much they mediate. When the time comes, those Hindus
will be shitting their pants just like the rest of us. You know what
they’re be thinking? “Fuck. I wish I’d tried steak.”

天啊?一天内,你是怎样保持那种热度和硬度的?

Bianca .

T: It was very difficult. At the end, I was like I am done. I just
wanted to go back to my hotel. It wasn’t fun at all. Thankfully the
director got fired this year, so I am glad.

She knows what she want, Bd she doesn’t second-guess herself. It’s sexy.
There’s no substitute for experience.

可怜狼狈,毫无乐趣,拍完了本人只想回旅馆。幸好这些导演二〇一九年被炒了,我很和颜悦色。

I was just getting started.

P: Do you feel a little bit strange to have sex in front of cameras, as
you need to be aware of the angles and everything. Can you still enjoy
bits, or do you have to treat it just as work, and make sure all good
shots are captured?

Guy said”You got this”

在画面前做爱,会不会以为有些古怪。因为你要时时留意分化的角度等等,在总体进度中,你仍是可以享受到片刻啊?

S05E10

T: It is a bit of both. You have to make sure you are or you show that
you are enjoying yourself. At the same time, you need to make sure you
open your body up to the camera. It’s practice. The more you shoot, the
more you know about the positioning and look natural as well. So it is
very important to know how to work with cameras.

Drug problem; break up with a guy means Fiona will meet someone.
Something surrounding was changing.

都有点啊。你早晚要力保自己在镜头前看起来很享受,同时要有限支撑伸展肢体。拍得越来越多,自然越了然,对角度、姿势等意况的操纵也会更成功。

Iven hurt himself.

P: Do you have to stop in the middle sometimes, just for the
photographer to get a good picture?

A new dying girl

偶然你须要中间暂停,让雕塑师拍一些好照片吗?

It’s always the same. Sexy, lying. End and up.

T: Usually the pictures are done first. So you do all the positons with
the picture, and you know what positons you can do and you do them. It’s
actually good as you will know in the actual filming, what positons come
after so the transitions can be more natural. And it is actually quite
funny to see afterwards how you do different transitions from this to
that. Some studios do the pictures during the filming, but it is not the
best way.

S05E11

常备照片是先拍的。而且这么,你会领悟要用到何等姿势,分歧姿势的转换会显得很当然。拍完后看自己怎么换不一样的体位,其实还蛮有意思的。有部分公司会在半路拍照片,我以为这不是最好的做法。

Nothing. I’m just passing.

P: And it is quite cool that you can practice all different positions
with your husband 😛

We talk to each other. And then solve the problem.

与此同时,你还足以和先生尝试那几个不一样的姿态,哈哈!

S05E12

T: It’s funny because I never try these positions with my husband as it
is always very natural. That’s why I always say I don’t have sex with my
husband, I make love to him. It’s not the same dynamic. It’s the
emotions. Sometimes, it can last an hour, sometimes it lasts 10 minutes.
And that’s the great thing as it is the passion and the intimacy.

Dying girl killed herself

有意思的是,我从未会和女婿尝试这么些姿势。我和他平昔是非凡自然的。我和丈夫的不是性爱,是做爱,是一心不均等的。有时候可能10分钟,有时候1小时,那么些都不首要。越来越多、更紧要的,是大家相互的情义、亲密和情绪。

Sexy with any guy

P: Do you feel a little bit awkward or strange if your husband sees your
work?

Pregnant

若果您爱人看到你拍的影视,你会觉得奇怪或者窘迫呢?

Keep going man. Let’s what was happening next time.

T: Well, obviously, he has seen me and I have nothing to be ashamed of.
I know that he has seen all the trailers for my movies. I wouldn’t watch
them with him. It is work, I always keep it that way as much as
possible. Sometimes, he is like, oh you look like you are really
enjoying yourself. I am like it is just work. Maybe it looks great and
we had fun and laughed a lot. But it is still just work, that’s it.

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没有啥样好害羞或者难堪的。我了然他看过自己具备电影的预先报告片。我自然不会和她一同看,因为那对自身的话只是工作而已。有时她可能会说,看起来您在那里面真的很享受。我会说,可能看起来是如此,但无论怎样,只是工作而已。

And in the evening, I go home to my husband.

与此同时早上,我回来家里,回到我先生身边。

P: It is actually such an amazing thing that you have someone to go back
to every evening.

有个能让您每一天回家的人,也是这个性感和幸福的事体。

T: It is and it does bring some balance. I guess I was missing that
before meeting him. I did not have any balance; it was all work.

没错。而且那会给您的工作和生活带来平衡感。我觉着在遇见她事先,我就是却少了那种平衡,那时候的自己不住地干活。

P: A lot of my friends are using all kinds of dating apps. They meet
people like having fast food, and they complain that it is so hard to
find a decent boyfriend. Do you think people should really get to know
each other before jumping into beds?

自身的洋洋有情人都在用差别的约会软件,他们像吃快餐那样见分化的人,但也不停地抱怨找一个好的男友为啥那么难。你认为滚床单这件事情,真的是要沉思熟虑啊?

T: Dating apps is good and bad. It has helped a lot of people to come
out and meet other guys without actually having to go to a gay bar. It
is easier, a lot of people do use it as a tool to do what you have said.

约会软件当然是两面的。它们扶植众多少人出柜,不要求去同志场合就能认识新的对象,让约炮约会变得越来越不难。

It’s important to know what exactly you want. It’s very easy to
complain. If you just want to hook-ups, great. If you want to find a
boyfriend, maybe try to look deeper. Everyone, even if a person says he
only wants sex, still wants a boyfriend and be in love.

一言九鼎的是通晓自己要什么。倘若您如果约炮,可以啊。固然你想要男朋友,那您就须求深刻点。每个人,就算是那么些声称只要性爱的人,都会想要男朋友,想要恋爱。

If you are open to meeting someone and actually open for relationships
to other people. You will always have the possibility of finding a
boyfriend. Sometimes it takes a bit more work, because you are shy or
socially awkward, or their appearances don’t fit into the stereotypes of
a perfect gay guy. But whatever you look like, there is always someone
who will find you attractive. And there is always people who will find
you ugly and unattractive, even with me.

要是您愿意认识不相同的人,并且想和别人成为男朋友,肯定会有希望的。有时候可能会相比难,或者要做相比多的卖力。无论你表面怎么样,总会有人以为你抓住人。尽管是自己,也会有人认为自家不太狼狈。

A lot of the guys don’t know what they want. They say they want
boyfriends, but at the same time, they want to have sex with lots of
other guys. So I think it is a matter of really looking inside you and
your own feelings, and then you can actually manage to do what you are
meant to do.

许多男生其实都不精通自己确实要什么。嘴上说要男朋友,心里却想和许多个人约炮。所以我以为,你真正须求扪心自问,驾驭自己想要什么才可以。

You know there are also some guys, they look so cute, and you will be
like, omg, I wanna talk to him. And it’s funny as it was how I met my
first boyfriend.

有时候你会看到一些男生,你会认为,天啊,怎么那样美观,我想和他开口。我就是如此遭受首个男朋友的,那样很有趣。

I just turned 18 in Dublin, and I was seeing a couple of friends. I
walked up to him and said hi, and that was it. I literally interrupted
him as he was with a friend. I was 18 and he was 34, so he was a not a
boy anymore.

那时候自己在布宜诺斯艾利斯,刚刚18岁,和多少个对象在酒馆。我看齐她,走上前问好,亲了他,然后一切就发出了,当时她还和多少个朋友在一起。那是她34岁的时候,所以现在她不再是男孩了。

P: Have you watched the TV series Queer as Folk? It was kind of like how
Justin and Bryan were first met.

您看过日剧《同志亦凡人》吗?那和贾斯汀、Bryan第二回会面的光景很像。

《同志亦凡人》剧照

T: Bryan was a jerk in the series, while the guy I met was the kindest
person I could ever meet and he is still a friend. It’s always the same
because you have to take a chance in life. Even for porn, it was a huge
chance and risk I decided to do it. And I feel like it is a good thing,
which I also ended up meeting my husband.

Bryan在电视剧里是个混蛋,但我的第二个男朋友是自个儿见过最和气的人,现在自家和他要么好爱人。有时候你就是急需冒险,须求逼自己刹那间。固然转业成人影片,对自身而言也是很大的支配,更是一场冒险。我认为很好,我也因为做事认识了明日的男人。

P: Wow, how come you meet your husband through porn?

嘿,你是怎么通过工作认识郎君的?

T: Because of porn, I was filming in Los Angeles. I met him as we have
friends in common. He is an underwear model as well as a celebrity
hairstylist. He doesn’t do porn though lots of studios have invited him
for that.

自家当时在法兰克福壁画,大家是经过联合好友认识的。他是内衣模特和明星发型师,没有从业过爱情动作片,固然有成百上千公司都诚邀过她。

P: Ah, so you guys are in totally different industries.

故此您和爱人完全在五个例外的行业里。

T: I wanna make sure that he has his own life and career as well. I
don’t want to feel like we have to compare ourselves. I think we have to
compliment and add to each other, rather than share everything. We need
to bring different things into the relationship. Your work, and your
career is a big thing. I love the fact that he does things I cannot do.
It’s pretty amazing you can have that.

自己盼望大家有例外的行事,他也有投机的生活。我不想有这种必须相互比较的感觉到。我愿意我们的关联是补充而不是享受一切。大家都急需为大家的涉嫌带来差别的事物,而工作是不行主要的。我非凡和颜悦色我的先生做着本人做不了的业务。

P: How long were you single before meeting your husband?

遇上你女婿从前,你独自多短时间了?

T: I was never much single. I always go from one relationship to
another. I hate being single. Every time I break up with someone, I
always feel like I want to be single. And next week, I will find a guy
who I really really like and look great, and here we go again.

本身平昔没怎么单身过。我大多都是从一段关系立刻进入下一段关系。我不喜欢独立,每一趟分别我都感觉想要单身,但过了一周就会发现自家欣赏的男生,然后又起来了。

When I met Shawn, I was not expecting to meet anyone. I was not looking
for boyfriend. But when I met him, I kept him.

自我遇见Shawn的时候,其实并不在找男朋友。但当我遇见她,我就吸引她了。

P: Looks like you guys have the perfect gay couple life: attractive,
good career, and a cute dog. Maybe some day to have a baby as well. And
I would love to adopt a cute mixed baby, such as Asian and European.

看起来你们现在过着全面的老同志生活:有自己喜欢的办事,还有可爱的狗狗。也许有一天你们会有谈得来的男女。借使是自身,会想要一个可爱的欧亚混血婴孩。

T: And I will have an Asian baby.

哈哈,那我就要一个北美洲宝宝。

Theo Ford(右)和老公Shawn de Rodez

P: Do you feel like here in Europe, Asians are not as popular as they
are in some other places. The popular ones here, are either the super
girly ones, or the ones who are like very stocky and muscular. The ones
in between, sometimes, do not seem to be that popular.

你有没有认为,在亚洲,很多个人喜爱非凡接近女子的,或者极度敦实的南美洲男生,处在中间的就像不那么受欢迎。

T: In Europe in general, Asian guys are not that popular. But London is
different as it is a very international and diverse city. You have lots
of inter-racial couples. That’s what I like about it. My husband and I,
we are biracial as well. It’s amazing to share different cultures and I
would love to have babies with him. There is actually a technology now
that you can put three people’s DNAs.

完全上,北美洲男生在南美洲的确尚未其他地方那么受欢迎。不过London是相当多元化的都会,有过多跨种族的朋友。我夫君和本人不怕差距种族的,能分享分裂的知识和背景是那几个棒的工作。我期待得以和她有友好的孩子,其完成在一度有合成两个人DNA的技艺了。

I would love to have Shawn get pregnant, lol. As a gay guy, you have to
work for it (having babies) and decide. It seems more like a mission
rather than something that just happens naturally. We will definitely
have kids, and hopefully in 3 or 4 years. Depending on where we live and
what we do, preferably before I am 35. I want to be a young dad.

本身超想Shawn怀孕,哈哈。作为同志,要孩子越多是一种目的和选取,不是放任自流就能够发生的。我们必定会要孩子,希望在近日三四年内。具体取决于大家在何地以及在干什么,可是我期望35岁前可以有。我期待做个青春的老爹。

P: A lot of the Chinese guys have to live in the closet because of the
social culture and family pressure. It is hard to come out, and in order
to do that, I think we have to be financially well-off, and totally
being able to afford a stable life, and surrogate babies if we want to.

是呀,好多华夏的同志因为社会和家中的压力无法做要好,出柜十分难。我觉得您不可以不经济独立,有力量让祥和过上舒适的生活,然后才得以代孕。

T: I have lots of Chines friends who are more or less out. It’s a shame
because sexuality is something so natural, and there is nothing more to
change it. Homosexuality has been around for millenniums, as well as
with the Greeks, the Romans, and the Egyptians. So it is not something
happened with the internet or new technologies. It is something that
exists in the animal kingdom as well. We have thousands of different
species that have homosexual relationships. It is natural and in nature,
though it is obviously cultural and religious too.

自己有过多半出柜的华夏情侣,因为那么些而不能做要好确实更加遗憾。同性恋是千百年来就存在的,是理所当然的,没有啥可以更改。动物的社会风气里也有,所以不是因为网络或新科学和技术才有的。当然,也和学识宗教有涉嫌。

When you do porn, and you are so out sexually. It is kind of amazing to
show that you can be empowered by your sexuality, regardless you are gay
or straight. But you can actually own your sexuality and be proud of it,
being able to decide what you want to do.

当您从事成人摄像,你就用很直接的法门公开性取向,还足以告诉大家,无论是异性恋仍旧同性恋,都足以为协调的性取向感到自豪,并且可以控制自己想做什么样。

It is amazing when some of my fans from China, even on Twitter. They
tweeted and telling me they are a big fan. And telling me they feel
happy to see that I can be happy and being gay; even being in porn and
happily married to another man.

本身的有些中华粉丝在推特(推文(Tweet))上对自我说,他们看来自身当做Gay可以那样快意,拍摄三级片的同时仍能和爱人甜蜜结合,那让她们也感到安心乐意,我认为那是很有含义的。

I am happy by myself. It kind of makes me happy that I can show others
that I can live a healthy life even I am gay. We have to educate people
to tell them that it is actually great to be gay. It is actually even
maybe more fun and exciting. Society cannot tell you that you have to be
married if you are 30.

自身要好很欢快,令人家见到我作为Gay如此健康欢娱,我也会快意。我们须求经过教育,让大家明白同性恋也得以很满面红光,甚至更好玩。社会不可以告诉大家30岁前必须结合。

When you are gay. You don’t have that. Imagine that you are a lesbian
woman. You don’t have a society that tells you that you have to have a
kid by 30. I love the fact that you are outside the society and the
rules. You can even create your own rules. I am the first generation of
homosexuals that can get married. And it is amazing to be a pioneer.

当您作为Gay,你就不用被那几个约定俗成的事物束缚,甚至足以决定和创建和谐的规则。我是率先代可以结婚的同性恋,很安心乐意能走在前方。

P: Did you guys get married here or in America?

你们是在美国成婚的吗?

T: We got married in Beverly Hills, LA, where my husband is from. I got
his name tattooed on my fingers two weeks ago for our 8-month wedding
anniversary. He got mine on his too.

大家在布鲁塞尔的贝弗利山结婚,我爱人也来自那里。为了庆祝大家结合五个月,两周前我把他的名字纹在指尖上,他也把自己的名字纹在她的手指头上。

When we got married and repeated the vows, it is pretty crazy. Sometimes
when I see movies or TV shows that have the same scene. I feel a bit
emotional.

当我们结婚和披露誓言的时候,我备感有点癫狂。有时候在影片仍旧电视机里看看类似场景,我都会被打动。

Not every day is easy as we also have fights. We are different people.
Sometimes it is difficult to adapt and we got married only after 3 weeks
of knowing each other. We met on the 17th of March on St. Patrick’s day.
It is really cool because I am Irish and this is a national holiday. On
the 8th of April, we got married. That was pretty quick and a lot of
people thought it was a fake wedding. It’s funny because people still
talk like that. If you see us, all the time, we hold hands every where
we go.

自然,不是天天都那么顺利的,我们也会有争议。大家是见仁见智的人,结婚前只相处了八个星期。咱们在一月17日相识,2月8号结婚。真的很快,以至于许几个人到明天都觉得我们是假结婚。要是您看我们,无论哪天哪个地方大家都会牵初阶。

P: That’s so sweet and romantic, even just to have someone to hold hands
together wherever you go.

不无一个其余时候、任何场所都牵手的人,分外性感和幸福。

Sometimes, you were not expected to be romantic and it just happened.
And I think we all have that kind of romanticism in us. So you really
have to open and dig out.

有时,大家会不小心地性感起来。我觉得每个人都有肉麻细胞,你必要持续发掘和发现自己。

P: Indeed, and I have done some very romantic things for my exes in the
past. When you look back, you will actually be amazed at how and when
you come up with these kind of ideas.

是啊,我也为前任们做过不少妖艳的作业。现在回顾起来,你会惊奇当初哪来那么多勇气和活力。

T: Sometimes it is like taking a risk to do something like that. When I
met my husband, it was my last night in LA. I needed to fly to New York
the next morning. And I asked him if he wanted to come with me. He was
like I don’t know and as it was literally the next day, the plan tickets
were so expensive. He couldn’t afford it. I told him not to worry, and
just take a day off to make sure he is free.

有时候我们还须求点冒险精神。我遇见Shawn的时候,是自身在春川的最终一天,第二天要飞London。我问她要不要和自我一头去,他说不知底,而且机票万分贵。我告诉她别担心,请一天假,保障自己有空就可以。

I got his tickets. The next day he came with me to New York for 3 days.
Later he had to go back to LA to work. So our first date started in LA,
and went on to New York, and lasted for 4 days in two different cities.
It is also the stories that make the relationship special. I like that
and you cannot make that up.

自己为她买了机票,第二天他就和自家一块儿去London,待了五天,之后他因为做事只可以回芝加哥。所以我们的率先次约会,跨越了多少个都市,持续了八日。正是那几个故事,让大家的关系变得专程和有含义,而那一个是无能为力杜撰的。

P: So who proposed? Is it yours or his idea?

那么是什么人求婚的啊?

T: It was a sunny Easter Sunday, and we spent the day with friends. At
dinner, he was like I don’t want to live another day without you. I want
to get married. And I was like are you sure. It’s funny because I said
yes. But it was more like are you sure? And he was like yeah. OK let’s
do it. I was a bit crazy as well. It was also a way to make a point that
we want to prove to each other that we really want to be together.

那是阳光灿烂的复活节周末,大家白天和朋友们在同步。晚饭时,他说不能想像没有自己的小日子,想和本人结婚。我说Yes,但听上去更像“你规定吗”。他就是说的,好,那我们就结婚吧。那诚然有点疯狂,但那也是表明大家真正想和对方在一齐的办法。

P: Dating these days seem so much more complicated as we need to
consider so many things; and always, there are so many choices, such as
omg, he is cute, but he doesn’t have a great career. We tend to lose the
guts of just doing it, simply being together.

那年头约会变得复杂许多,因为选拔太多,须要考虑的也很多,比如对方很为难,然则工作一般。大家好像失去了耀武扬威的勇气,以及简简单单在一起的初心。

P: Some people these days even use plastic surgeries to make themselves
fit into certain standards, such as high cheek bones, skinny faces. What
do you think about these?

今昔游人如织人会通过整容让投机适合某些特定的审美标准,比如高颧骨、瘦脸等等,你怎么看?

T: If it really helps you to make yourself feel better in your skin, do
it. If it is just a replacement for something you are not getting in
life, such as self-esteem and respect, that can be very dangerous.
That’s why there is actually higher percentage of suicides among people
who take plastic surgeries because they think going through certain body
changes will make them happier, but you have to be happy first.

如果那诚然可以让您感觉更好更自信,那就去做吗。但如果把这一个当成某种不可以赢得的东西的替代品,比如自信和对团结的重视,那就很惊险了。整容人群的自杀率相对较高,是因为众几人认为整容可以让她们更春风得意,但最要紧的是,你先要能让投机心满意足起来。

P: And you need to feel so careful and delicate when having sex with
these people (Just kidding, oops, don’t break my nose or lip).

并且你和那几个人滚床单的时候要多小心,比如别弄坏鼻子或嘴唇(玩笑哈)。

T: Sometimes, you just have to make sure you are the best you can be. It
never a matter being perfect or being exactly what people want you to be
in this industry. And this actually apply for everything in life. That’s
actually why my name Theo come from for porn. It means the descendant of
a human being into a god-like state. The idea is, every day, you become
better.

奇迹,你只须求保障您成为最好的友善,不需求变成豪门想要你成为的那样。在办事上,生活里,都应当这么。Theo那么些名字的根源,就是神话里最接近神的气象的人。意思是,每一日你都会进步,能成为更好的自己。

P: It’s the perfect relationship you can have. To help each other become
better versions. It kind of sucks that most of guys are seeking
temporary romances and chemistries.

这就是最周到的关联,互助共进。可惜现在多数男生都是找长期的肉麻或者关联。

T: Getting married so quickly might seem crazy but it has actually made
us better and stronger. Because we are married, we have to stay together
and make an effort to really be together to make each other happy. So it
was actually really great to get married so quickly before we get tired
of each other. Even if at some point, it really turns out to be a huge
mistake, you can always get a divorce. In my head, if I don’t give this
the best chance possible, I never know what my life can be with him.

如此那般快结婚看上去确实很疯狂,但那也让大家更为贴心。因为我们务必花时间精通对方,花精力让对方喜欢,让大家实在在一块儿。所以在我们没有厌倦对方从前,这么快结婚是一件好事。即便有一天大家发现那是个谬误,也足以离婚。

We get engaged on Sunday and I told my mon. We picked the rings on
Monday. On the Wed we got married. So my Facebook status, changed from
being in a relationship, to engaged, and to married in like 4 days.
People were like what happened?

大家周日订婚并且告诉我丈母娘,星期四大家去买戒指,星期二大家就结婚了,所以我的Facebook状态在4天内从单身变成恋爱,变成订婚,变成已婚。很多个人都好奇了,不晓得暴发了什么样。

P: People might just think it is for post April Fool’s Day, lol

我们兴许以为是愚人节的节后玩笑啊,哈哈。

T: It was actually just in April and just after that. I like the idea of
just making the biggest effort. If you don’t risk, you don’t get
anything.

实在是在愚人节之后。我喜欢“尽最大努力”那种观点。假如您不冒险,就如何都得不到。

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